Rig tuning
You need to start over, especially loosening the intermediates. As was mentioned, be sure and check the shrouds are properly seated in the T-ball fittings. Use the guide to dock tune it as well as you can, but this is ONLY the start. Then you need to go sailing, and tune it on each tack until it is straight on both sides. If you do this in 8-12 knots with a 130-150 genoa, there should be no fall off to leeward at the top and the mast should be in column all the way up. If you are sailing in 15+ with big sails, a little tip fall off is OK.
Sailing on starboard tack, sight up the mainsail track and note where the mast is out of column. For example if the mast is falling off to leeward at the lower shroud intersection, you know you need to add a little tension on the lower. To do this, tack over so the side you want to tune is unloaded, make the change and tack back and see what happened. Once everything is good, the lee shrouds should be loose enough to wiggle 1/2" or so but not moving by themselves. In under 10 knots of breeze they shoud still be snug.
It is NOT possible to fully tune a rig at the dock. You get it in the ballpark and finish it while sailing. With 3 people on the boat you should be able to do it in an hour.
There a lot of posts about this in more detail on the site-you may want to look at those as well.
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