...just humming along....
"Harmonics", is the word of the day!
A much-discussed anoyance with stayed rigs on all kinds of boats. The rod rigging on our Niagara 26 had this problem... and for some reason C&C owners deal with it a lot.
It is less-mentioned on Ericsons, for some reason.
I suspect that the shape of the spar has something to do with it, as well.
Have you tried tensioning or slacking the backstay to see if that helps? Maybe leading the spar halyards around the outer shrouds and tensioning them? Maybe bring the pole lift around the shroud and clip it to the spinnaker eye and take that up hard...
We have it on our present boat, but rarely. Wind speed seems important, but it can be equally bothersome under 10 kts or over 20...
Wish I could give you a quick answer. You just need to experiment with anything that changes the tension on various wires or changes the "tuneable" length of the spar.
Best,
Loren