Thre are many threads on tuning on this site. That being said here are a few guide lines
https://northsails.com/sailing/resources/how-to-tune-your-rig
http://www.ballengerspars.com/mtguide5-97.html
https://theriggingco.com/2017/01/21/how-to-tune-a-sailboat-mast/
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TUNING KEEL-STEPPED MASTHEAD RIGS
Once the mast is centered side to side, tighten both upper shroud turnbuckles evenly. Continue to tighten the uppers until they are both firm to the touch, or until the tension matches numbers provided by your tuning guide/rigger/sailmaker.
If the mast goes out of column, ease off tension until it is straight again. Be careful not to strip the turnbuckle threads. Do not overtighten.
Tighten all intermediates and lowers evenly on each side, sighting frequently up the aft side of the mast to make sure it remains straight.
This is the initial setting, with mast centered and straight, and all shrouds firm. When you tension the headstay/backstay, the mast should remain straight side to side.
UNDER SAIL
In moderate breeze, take the slack out of the upper on the leeward side (and count your turns so you can replicate the amount on the other tack). Tack, and then tighten the other upper the same amount.
Once the leeward uppers are tight, sight up the mast on each tack to check for side bend. If the middle sags to leeward, tighten the lowers. If the top appears to fall off to leeward, it could actually be the middle popping to windward; either loosen lowers or tighten uppers accordingly. Both over-tight lowers and loose uppers allow the tip to fall off, which creates a narrow angle of intersection between the uppers and the mast. Beware, as this can overload the shroud fittings and cause rig failure.
Proper tension will leave the leeward upper shrouds taut with 15 degrees of heel and a full crew on the rail. The uppers should be tighter than the lowers; they have more load and also stretch more because they are longer.
Check the rig periodically, particularly after sailing in heavy air. Look for stretch in the uppers and for over-tensioned lowers, which can overload the upper spreaders.
From this base setting, you will probably want to fine tune your rig for sailing conditions. Generally this would mean adding tension to the uppers in heavy air, and backing off a couple of turns in light air. Sometimes fine tuning is best done by tensioning/loosening the headstay instead.
MAST BEND AND HEADSTAY SAG
Working with the backstay and a combination of running backstay, baby stay, and/or vang, it is possible to control mast bend and headstay sag separately.
Backstay tension will bend the mast through compression as well as tighten the headstay. The mix depends on running backstay tension. If the runners are tight, they restrict mast bend, and the backstay impacts headstay sag. Looser runners allow more mast bend.
With a stiff mast, backstay tension translates primarily into headstay tension, controlling sag. A baby stay can then be used to add bend. The backstay contributes to bend as well, particularly once bend has been initiated by the baby stay.
Running backstays allow control of mast bend independent of headstay sag. A tight backstay will tighten the headstay and bend the mast. Tensioning the runners will straighten the mast.