Ahhhhhh, so!
I did not realize we were talking about THIS vintage 34-I thought you have one of the late 80's or newer-which is a similar boat in terms of engineering and construction to the 35, 38 series, etc. It has the TAFG, and was a cruiser racer more than anything else. It was NOT strictly designed to an rule (especially IOR), although it has some IOR lineage.
Your boat the 34-3/4 tonner etc. came in a flush deck version and also a cabin top version. The Tall Rig variants were awesome boats upwind in all conditions, and pretty good around the buoys in light air no matter what the angle. The were weaker reaching and running when the air was up-not much waterline length for the sail area, or ballast, and a hull shape (largely determined by the handicap rule it was built for) that was a better uowind/light air shape than anythihng else. All in all cool.
My friend Steve, who owns Rogue (and is a denizen of this website) will likely chime in now that he sees what boat you have. His boat was originally a 34 Flush Deck with the std. (short) rig. This boat liked a lot more breeze than the TR's but was and is a great upwind boat. Steve was kind enough to get me involved with a Turbo/re-hab of this boat-with a much taller rig, longer boom, full size A-sails for downwind work, and more. It is PHRF killer!!!
In any case, this particular mast was actually very stiff in fore and aft column, and as you have observed, somewhat bend resistant. The rig did not usually come with fore and aft lowers-just a set lowers on the same line as the uppers and intermediates, so they were of no help in inducing bend. If you actually DO have aft lowers (this was mostly on the trunk cabin version of the 34T), leave them somewhat looser than the uppers/intermediates.
The boat DID come with a babystay, which is a very adjustable inner forestay, and was used "back in the day" to induce bend down low and also to help steady the rig in big seas. It usally was attached to a deck padeye with a beefy purchase system, or to a car on a fore and aft track, which was adjustable also via a purchase system or often hydraulics. Some of the more noodle-ish rigs of the day really needed the baby stay to keep the rig in the boat-but not yours. Most have done away with it since in clutters the deck and makes tacking harder as the genny has to clear it each time.
The result of getting rid of it is the loss of some ability to bend the mast-BUT....who says you need more than 3-4 inches"
The reason we bend the mast is to flatten the sail-BUT when a sailmaker designs a sail, he first finds out how much bend can the mast obtain under typical sailing conditions. If the number is 4", he will usually use 80% of that, or 3.2" for the amount of luff curve he will add to the sail. The 2 ways of adding depth to a sail are seam shaping and luff curve. The idea is that by the time you have put in most of the available bend, the luff cuve has been pulled out of the sail (matching the mast as it bends), and hence obtaining a very flat shape. If the rig bends 12", then a designer (for a race sail) will usually use something like 9.6" of curve-again 80% of the available bend. This way, the owner can go from completely full to board flat by using about 80% of the available adjustment on the backstay. Having a lot of available bend is only good if it matches the luff curve in the mainsail. A desinger for your boat will use very little luff curve, and prefer to add most of the depth of the sail in the shaping seams (which will also beome flatter as BS tension is added-but not at quite a high a rate). Mainsail sfor boats that are more cruisy in nature will typically use much less overall luff curve-the reason being that many owners do not use BS adjusters, and having a sail that is too full is no fun except for the lightest of air-way better off erring on the flat side..
When you have a mast that is not very bendy, then the load will go more directly to the headstay-giving you faster, more precise HS sag control than a boat with a very bendy mast might have-you will both get where you are going, but at different rates-both are equally good and desireable.
The idea is for a sailmaker to match the bend characteristics of a given rig so the owner gets maximum adjustability-and the section/tube in your boat was a race section for the say-very different from todays E-rigs, and unless you go to a long throw cylinder and replace or use the babystay agressively, you will live (quite happlity BTW) with 3-4" of bend!!
Hope this helps!!
S